Listening to the Flow

Here’s the thing I’ve learned — when you get in the flow of things and stop overthinking, magic happens. It’s all about timing. It’s like the other morning, I woke up at 1 AM, totally wide awake. And you know what? That wasn’t just me being restless; I felt a pull. God was nudging me, saying, “Wake up, there’s a lesson for you here.” I had to listen.

I went into the house, which was completely silent. Not a sound in the air, just quiet, peaceful energy. And in that silence, I could feel the spirit moving. It wasn’t about me getting things right — it was about being in the flow, asking the questions, and being open to receiving the answers.

Judgment from the Heart

That’s when the word “judgment” came to me. I thought, what does judgment mean in this context? The real trick is learning to use judgment from the heart. You see, judgment isn’t inherently bad — it’s just about where it’s coming from. If your judgment is from your brain, it’s usually born from fear. And fear? Fear creates walls, keeps you stuck, and only gets in the way of what you really want.

When judgment comes from a place of love, that’s where the magic happens. It’s not about pointing fingers or assigning blame. It’s about using your intuition and discernment, seeing situations for what they truly are, and approaching them with kindness and gentleness. When we go with the flow, we stop trying to fix or control things. Instead, we simply observe, let go, and trust that things are unfolding in perfect timing.

The Shift from Control to Flow

This is something I learned the hard way. I had a fear-based mindset for a long time. I’d try to fix things, push them into place, make sure everything was in order — only to feel exhausted and stuck. ControlZilla, as I call it, was running the show. But when I allowed myself to let go, when I chose to stop pushing against the flow, everything started to feel lighter.

Letting go doesn’t mean giving up; it means allowing yourself to receive. Let the universe show you the way. When you don’t fight against the current, when you stop paddling upstream, the river will carry you exactly where you need to go.

The Question of Acceptance

Here’s a powerful question: Are you okay with things not going according to plan? Are you okay if things don’t unfold the way you imagined?

We often stress over whether we’ll be healed, successful,and loved, and we judge these outcomes. But judgment from the heart helps us accept things just as they are, even when they’re hard. Because sometimes, what’s in front of us is exactly what we need to grow.

An Example of Letting Go

When I was facing financial hardship a few years ago, I was absolutely consumed by fear. I was at my wits’ end, pushing myself, fighting against what was happening. But one day, I had had enough. I was done with the fear. And in that moment of surrender, I just said, “Bring it on.” It wasn’t a defeat — it was me taking my power back. I said, “If we’re going to be homeless, let’s do it. If that’s what’s coming, fine.”

And you know what? That was the turning point. As soon as I stopped fighting, everything changed. I found a job, and we found stability; my entire life shifted. Not because I made it happen, but because I got out of the way and let things happen.

Embrace the Flow

Life is like a river, and we’re all paddling our own boats. Sometimes the wind picks up, and we struggle. But when you stop fighting, when you stop paddling against the current, you’ll find peace. You’ll find yourself coasting downstream, effortlessly. The resistance? It melts away.

We often create our own problems by resisting what’s in front of us. But what if we just allowed things to unfold? What if we trusted that everything is happening for us, even when it feels hard?

The Power of Surrender

Remember, surrendering doesn’t mean giving up — it means trusting that what’s happening is part of your journey. When you stop pushing against the pull door and stop battling the natural flow, that’s when things get better.

It’s time to let go of the idea that things should always be hard, that you need to fight, control, or fix. The flow is where you’re supposed to be. It’s when you lean into the current and trust that it’s guiding you to exactly where you need to be.

Final Thoughts: Let Love Lead

So here’s your takeaway today: Let love guide your judgment. Trust in the flow. Don’t fight it. Don’t push against it. Go with it. Your heart knows the way, and it’s always in alignment with your highest good. When you go with the flow, you’ll find that everything you need is already on its way.

Trust the process. Let go of fear. And embrace the journey. Let’s keep flowing together.

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